Have you ever watched someone in your care become increasingly agitated, confused, or restless as daylight fades?
If so, you’re witnessing what many professional caregivers consider one of dementia care’s most challenging situations: sundowning.
Did you know that up to 20% of people with Alzheimer’s experience sundowning symptoms according to the Alzheimer’s Association?
But here’s what many don’t realize—even though these behaviors can’t be completely eliminated, they can be significantly reduced with the right approach.

As one experienced caregiver put it: “The evening hours used to be my biggest challenge until I learned to see sundowning as a communication, not a behavior problem.”
Sundowning isn’t just about the time of day—it’s the intersection of neurological changes, environmental factors, and unmet needs coming together in a perfect storm.
Here are the professional techniques that really work! ?
Understanding What’s Really Happening During Sundowning
When an older adult with dementia experiences sundowning, they aren’t being difficult—their brain is struggling with multiple challenges simultaneously:
- Disrupted circadian rhythms affecting sleep-wake cycles
- Accumulated fatigue from trying to make sense of their world all day
- Increased shadow patterns creating visual confusion
- Reduced sensory input as natural light diminishes
- Staff shift changes (in facility settings) creating anxiety

Many caregivers make the mistake of trying to reason with someone experiencing sundowning or repeatedly reorient them to reality.
But here’s the surprising truth discovered by professional caregivers: prevention and environment are far more effective than reaction.
So what’s the most overlooked factor in managing sundowning? It’s not medication or restraint—it’s creating a structured environmental approach that begins hours before symptoms typically appear.
The Professional’s 3-Hour Transition Approach to Prevent Sundowning
After years of working with clients who experience evening agitation, professional caregivers have developed a systematic approach that focuses on gradual transitions rather than sudden changes.
Here’s how it works:
1. The Transition Hour (3-4 PM): Buffer Between Day and Night
This critical hour serves as a buffer between daytime activities and evening wind-down. Professional caregivers:
- Gradually reduce environmental stimulation (lower TV volume, reduce background noise)
- Provide a light protein-based snack to prevent hunger-triggered agitation
- Address any pain or discomfort proactively before it intensifies
- Begin dimming harsh overhead lighting while maintaining adequate visibility
? Pro Tip: Track patterns of when agitation typically begins and start your transition hour 60-90 minutes before symptoms usually appear.
2. The Calming Hour (4-5 PM): Setting the Evening Tone
During this hour, professionals focus on creating environmental cues that signal a calming evening routine:
- Introduce familiar, repetitive activities that provide comfort (folding towels, sorting items)
- Use aromatherapy with lavender or vanilla (if appropriate for the individual)
- Play soft, familiar music from their young adult years at low volume
- Reduce the number of people in the environment when possible
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3. The Settling Hour (5-6 PM): Preparing for Evening Comfort
This final transition hour focuses on physical and emotional comfort:
- Maintain consistent, warm lighting that minimizes shadows
- Create a predictable routine for evening meals in a quiet environment
- Provide comfort objects (soft blanket, familiar photo)
- Use short, simple sentences and a calm, reassuring tone

The 5 Most Effective Responses to Breakthrough Agitation
Even with perfect prevention, breakthrough agitation can occur. When it does, professional caregivers rely on these evidence-based approaches:
- Stay Calm and Match Their Pace: Begin by matching their energy level briefly before gradually slowing your movements and speech.
- Validate Emotions Without Correction: Instead of saying “No, it’s not time to go home,” try “You’re feeling like you need to go somewhere. Tell me more about that.”
- Redirect Rather Than Restrict: If pacing occurs, create a safe walking path rather than preventing movement—motion often relieves anxiety.
- Use the Power of Distraction: Introduce an engaging sensory activity like hand massage with scented lotion or sorting colored items.
- Simplify the Environment: Sometimes reducing stimuli by moving to a quieter space with fewer people can quickly de-escalate agitation.
Remember: The goal isn’t to completely eliminate sundowning but to reduce its frequency and intensity through consistent application of these techniques.

Self-Care: The Secret Weapon Against Sundowning
Professional caregivers understand that managing their own stress is essential for effective sundowning care. Research shows that anxiety is contagious—when caregivers are stressed, those in their care often become more agitated.
Try these professional self-regulation techniques:
- Practice the 3-breath reset: When you feel tension rising, take three slow deep breaths before responding
- Use positive self-talk: Replace “I can’t handle this” with “This is temporary, and I have strategies that work”
- Create a respite rotation: Even a 10-minute break during peak sundowning times can prevent caregiver burnout

Your Sundowning Management Plan Starts Today
The most important thing professional caregivers want you to know is this: consistency is key. While you might not see immediate results, implementing these strategies regularly creates cumulative benefits over time.
Start with these three steps:
- Observe and document when sundowning behaviors typically begin
- Implement one environmental change this week (like adjusting lighting or reducing noise)
- Create a simple comfort station with familiar objects, proper lighting, and a visible clock
Remember that your calm, confident presence is the most powerful tool in your sundowning management kit. As one professional caregiver noted, “When I changed my approach from trying to control the behavior to trying to understand the need behind it, everything improved.”
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Have you tried any of these sundowning management techniques?
What’s worked best for you or someone in your care?
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